"This Is My First Workout in 3 Weeks": Coach Nicole on Consistency, and How We Support Women | APEX PWR

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"This Is My First Workout in 3 Weeks, and I'm a Personal Trainer"

Coach Nicole Hinkle  |  APEX PWR, Tigard, Oregon  |  September 2026

I think sometimes we see fitness professionals online and assume they've got it all figured out. That they're always motivated, always consistent, always making themselves a priority.

So I want to tell you something you probably wouldn't know from looking at my social media. This is my first workout in three weeks, and I'm a personal trainer. I am literally in a gym every single day. I spend hours here. I have everything I could possibly need right at my fingertips.

And sometimes life still gets me. Work, kids, schedules, responsibilities, and just the mental load of taking care of everything else sometimes means that putting myself on the list feels really freaking hard.

And I think women need to hear that, because if you're struggling to be consistent, it doesn't mean you're failing. The goal was never perfection. The goal is to keep finding little ways to come back to yourself.

Some days that might look like a great strength workout and a run. Some days it might be a 10-minute walk around the building. And some seasons you might realize it's been three weeks since you've done much of anything. That's okay.

Start again today. It all counts.

Coach Nicole Hinkle Personal and group strength coach at APEX PWR. Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist through Girls Gone Strong. Navigating perimenopause herself at 47.

Nicole recorded this on the day she came back. One minute, fifteen seconds.

We debated whether to post that. It is not the kind of thing a gym usually says out loud, because the whole industry is built on implying that the people who work here have solved something you have not.

We posted it because it is true, and because the alternative is letting women believe that a three-week gap is evidence of a character flaw. It is not. It is a season. There are seasons in a year and seasons in a life, and some of them are not going to be your strongest.

What matters is that when you decide to come back, there is something real to come back to. That is the rest of this article: every way we support women, and what each one is actually for.

Know Where You Actually Stand

Most women's first real information about their bones arrives after something breaks. That is a bad system, because bone loss is silent for decades and then presents as a fracture at 65 that gets explained away as bad luck and old age.

It is not bad luck. It is a measurable process that was measurable the whole time.

Gold Standard Testing

DEXA Scan for Bone Density

Scans your lumbar spine and hip or femur and reports a T-score, comparing you with healthy young adults, and a Z-score, comparing you with your age peers. This is how osteopenia and osteoporosis are actually identified, rather than assumed.

Bone loss accelerates around menopause, which is exactly why a baseline in your thirties or forties is worth so much more than a first scan at 65. A number today gives you something to protect. A number at 65 gives you something to explain.

$167 single scan  |  as low as $127 per scan in a package

Gold Standard Testing

DEXA Scan for Body Composition

Separates lean mass from fat mass and shows how both are distributed. This is the test that ends the argument with the bathroom scale, which cannot tell you whether a stable weight means nothing changed or means you traded four pounds of muscle for four pounds of fat.

It is also how you find out whether a training block worked, instead of relying on how you felt about it.

Then you build a plan from the numbers and retest to see whether the plan is working. That sequence is the difference between hoping things hold up and knowing whether they are.

Strength training is the intervention here, not the supplement aisle. Loaded exercise is one of the few things that meaningfully signals bone to hold on to itself, and it is the only one that also builds the muscle that keeps you out of a fall in the first place.

Training for the Season You Are In

Pregnancy + Postpartum

Pregnancy and Postpartum Training

Programming matched to your actual stage rather than a generic prenatal class, whether that is second trimester or eight weeks postpartum and unsure what your body will tolerate. Covers core and pelvic floor strength, breath work, and rebuilding flexibility and endurance, with personal training, group options and online resources.

Several of our staff have been through it themselves, which changes the quality of the conversation. And because we have doctors of physical therapy in the building, the handoff between rehab and training is a walk down the hall rather than a referral you have to chase.

Perimenopause + Menopause

Perimenopause and Menopause Strength Training

Our position, stated plainly on the program page: you do not need a special menopause workout. You need well-designed strength training with real challenge, progressive overload and adequate recovery. The hormone-themed workout industry is mostly marketing.

What genuinely changes in this stage is how symptoms interfere with consistency, recovery and confidence in the gym. That is a coaching problem, and it is why this program is led by Coach Nicole, who holds a Menopause Coaching Specialist certification through Girls Gone Strong and is going through it herself.

Group and personal training, in a quiet and intentional room rather than a commercial gym, with group sizes small enough to protect the coaching.

Nutrition

Nutrition Coaching

Led by Jennie Carolan, MS, our Director of Nutrition. Three ways in depending on what you actually need: a One-Time Macro Breakdown if you just want your numbers, the 12 Week Nutrition Challenge if you know what to do and do not do it consistently, or VIP 1:1 coaching if your situation has real complexity in it.

Protein is usually the first thing we change, because it is the nutrient that supports the muscle you are training for and the one most women we work with are under-eating. Coaching is delivered remotely as well as in person, so this one does not require you to live here.

Supplements

Thorne, 25% Off For Life

Last on the list on purpose. Food, training and sleep do the work, and no supplement substitutes for a week you actually showed up for. Supplements close specific gaps, most often protein when a daily target is out of reach from food alone, omega-3s when fish is rare, creatine monohydrate, and vitamin D or a basic multivitamin when eating is inconsistent.

We partner with Thorne because the supplement industry is loosely regulated and their NSF Certified for Sport line is batch tested against banned substances. Ordering through the APEX Thorne page attaches 25% off for life to your account across the entire catalog. No code to paste, and you do not need to be a client, a patient, or an Oregon resident.

Start Again Today

You do not have to pick all of it. Pick the one that matches the season you are in.

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Tigard, Beaverton and the Portland Metro

Our facility is at 11105 SW Greenburg Rd in Tigard, Oregon, just off Highway 217. Strength training, pregnancy and postpartum programming, physical therapy and DEXA scanning happen here, for women across Tigard, Beaverton, Lake Oswego, Tualatin, Sherwood, West Linn, Hillsboro and Southwest Portland. Nutrition coaching is available remotely nationwide.

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Frequently Asked Questions

I have not worked out in weeks. Where do I actually start?
With one session, not a new identity. The most common mistake after a long gap is treating the return as a reset that demands perfect adherence from day one, which is the same thinking that made the gap feel like a failure. Pick one thing this week and do it. If you want structure rather than willpower, a coached program removes the daily decision, and a baseline test gives you something concrete to measure against later.
Why should a woman get a DEXA scan for bone density?
Because bone loss is silent until it is not. A DEXA bone density scan measures your lumbar spine and hip or femur and reports a T-score against healthy young adults and a Z-score against your age peers. That is how osteopenia and osteoporosis are identified. Bone loss accelerates around menopause, so a baseline in your thirties or forties is far more useful than a first scan at 65. A single scan is $167, and packages bring it to $127 per scan.
Do I need a special workout for perimenopause or menopause?
No, and our perimenopause program is built on saying so. What you need is well-designed strength training with genuine challenge, progressive overload and real recovery, not a hormone-themed workout. What changes is how symptoms affect consistency, recovery and confidence, which is a coaching problem. Coach Nicole Hinkle is a certified Menopause Coaching Specialist through Girls Gone Strong and is navigating perimenopause herself.
Can I strength train while pregnant or postpartum?
For most healthy pregnancies, yes, with programming matched to your stage and clearance from your provider. Our pregnancy and postpartum training adapts to where you are, whether that is second trimester or early postpartum, and covers core and pelvic floor strength, breath work and rebuilding endurance. Clear exercise with your OB or midwife first, particularly with a high-risk pregnancy or a complicated delivery.
Where is APEX PWR and do I have to be local?
We are at 11105 SW Greenburg Rd in Tigard, Oregon, serving Beaverton, Lake Oswego, Tualatin, Sherwood, West Linn, Hillsboro and Southwest Portland. Training, physical therapy and DEXA scanning are in person. Nutrition coaching is remote and nationwide, and the Thorne 25% lifetime discount is open to anyone in the United States.

The Comeback Is Always Available

You do not have to start over. You just have to start again.

Women's Strength Training Nutrition Coaching
This article is educational and is not medical advice. DEXA scanning at APEX PWR is a body composition and bone mineral density assessment and is not a diagnosis; results indicating low bone density should be reviewed with your physician. Clear any new exercise program with your provider, and clear pregnancy or postpartum exercise with your OB or midwife, particularly with a high-risk pregnancy, a complicated delivery, or a pelvic floor concern. APEX PWR has a professional dispensary relationship with Thorne and earns a commission on orders placed through our partner link, at no additional cost to you and with the 25% discount applied.

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